There are many unwritten rules between friends. The two biggest rules are: never use anything friends say against them... and don't date their exes. If the ex-girlfriend rule is ever broken, chances are that the friendship will be lost, and a physical fight might even break out. As much as men swear that their exes don't mean anything to them, it still hurts when they realize that their women have found someone new. If that someone else is a close friend, it just amplifies the pain.
No matter how long you've been infatuated with a woman and no matter how much you think you're in love, drop any thoughts of dating any of your friends' ex-girlfriends. If you were too shy or embarrassed to ask her out in the beginning, it's too bad, you lost your opportunity so drop it.
It's always easier to approach women you know, and chances are that your friend spilled enough juicy details about his former partner that you know exactly what makes her tick. Although this train of thought may tempt you, forget about it. Women may be beautiful, charming, wonderful, loving, and seemingly perfect, but no woman is worth the loss of a close friend -- as I learned, a little too late.
Get it on!
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